Thanks again for the article you shared… I’ve read it and highlighted a few spots that were particularly helpful to me. I most enjoyed:

“Conversation is a ladder, with small talk serving as the first few rungs. You can’t leap-frog up the ladder.”

And, “The first step… is to start seeing yourself as the host, as opposed to the guest, in any situation. The host acts as a leader. He’s active, not passive, and takes the initiative in talking with people, guiding the conversation, filling in awkward pauses, introducing people, and making others feel comfortable and welcome.”

This is great – makes good sense and I can see myself being more assertive this way from a heart of hospitality (I care about people, so hosting them – even in conversation… even in small talk, is a blessing).

One of my favorite devices to use in conversation is to say, “Tell me about…”

I know when I’m at my best, I have a genuine interest in people and a curiosity about their lives. I love to learn. And I know everyone has something of value to share with me.

Anyway, thank you for the resource and encouragement!